If you have been dating but your dates don’t end up as you were expecting, maybe there is more to it than just the clothes or the makeup you choose to wear.
One thing is for sure and you may not even believe it at this point. The thing is that you can pass along many Mr. Rights but you end up dating with only the Mr. Wrongs. So, what’s happening? What are you doing that you’re only attracting men who don’t have the qualities that you’re looking for?
Here are 4 mistakes you should be probably doing and you don’t even realize:
You’re a good catch:
Yes, it’s true up to some point. Even though you may hear all your girlfriends telling you this all the time, the fact is that you just can’t please all men. One of the things that you can do is to write down a list stating all the reasons why a man wouldn’t want to date you. With this list, you’ll discover that some of the cute things you think you have can actually be pretty annoying. This will help you see ahead these things on the men you are dating. There are always things you like and don’t like. No one is perfect. It’s all about compromise.
You have unlimited options:
If you have in your mind that you have unlimited options, you’ll be searching for the right person for the rest of your life. Just think about some jeans you want to buy. You want that shape, that color, that length, and they are on sale. You just found what you were looking for and instead of buying those jeans you think you can find some other jeans at a different store. And you keep going to different stores and you never do. And the time keeps passing by until the moment you think “what if…?”.
You judge a lot:
One of the main complaints most men have regarding the women they date is that they tend to be very judgmental. While when you ask your girlfriends why they didn’t go on a second date they can give you dozens of reasons, men generally won’t reach the 5. When a man thinks it is time to settle down, they look at the girl and if they are in love with her, they will keep her. It doesn’t matter if the previously girl they dated was more pretty or nicer. This is the girl they chose.
You are pickier than men:
When you go on a date and you don’t actually know the guy but only know he is handsome, you may have the best or the worst surprise of your life. It’s true that beauty is an important factor. However, if he isn’t kind, you won’t ever fall in love for him. However, even if he has some weird tastes regarding music, this isn’t one reason why you shouldn’t fall in love.
As you can see, when you’re dating, there’s a lot more than just the looks that matter. Just tale a look around you and see the men who you identify with. Have a date with them. You may actually be surprised with what you find out.